Yup, you read that right! It is quite possible to live with similarities that are not positive and not even notice them until far after connecting with someone. We commonly attach negatively when we have unresolved trauma, unaddressed habits, or certain attachment styles. It frequently leads to trauma bonding to convince people to fight for relationships that they are compatible negatively. If your love interests, sex partners, or romantic relationships are often intense with chemistry and fall flat to feeling incompatible, then this episode is for you!